Okay, so the bride asked me to throw her a lingerie shower... not a big deal, I'm happy to do it. In the past, the very recent past, she has mentioned that she wants something a bit raunchy and risque. I found out today that her mom will be attending... her mom is not "that" type of mom. The shower is very soon and I am wondering if (and how) I should tone down the "raunchy" that the bride has talked about without her mom feeling uncomfortable, because I know her mom, and she will feel VERY awkward. TIA