My mom has been on me a little for having a wedding because of the money. We have been engaged just a few months. Getting married November of 2013. Plenty of planning and saving time. We are paying for it all ourselves. I want to habe my mom included of course, since she is so creative and good at planning things. But it makes me reluctant because I'm afraid she'll be criticizing the price tags the whole time. She basically said it's dumb to spend all that money on one day. I showed her the venue we booked and she saw the price. The first thing she said was, "You're spending x amount? Isn't that a little excessive?" I'm thinking no it's actually a good deal with the packages and such. I love my mom l, but sheesh...