So last night my FBIL came up to me in the kitchen and said "Jess wants to know what she'll be wearing in the wedding." I explained that though it wouldn't be a formal affair, I do expect her to be in a dress or skirt, since she is a BM, and we wil be in a church meetinghouse, and that is dresscode.
FBIL: "She doesn't have a skirt."
Me: "We'll have to change that." (laughing a bit at this point.)
FBIL: *Huffing and setting his jaw* "If you try to change her, I WILL KILL YOU!"
At this point, I stood up a little straighter, stepped away from FI, and said "I'm not doing this for me, Joe. If she is going to be so darned uncomfortable in a skirt for one day of her life, then she doesn't need to be in my wedding. You and I both know, that is the dress code of the church, and I WILL NOT have a bridesmaid standing beside me in pajama pants on my wedding day! I do NOT appreciate having my life threatened because I offered to buy your tomboy girlfriend a skirt, and at no point did I say anything about changing her as a person. I am going to bed, and this conversation is over."
Was I wrong?
December 18, 2010!!! Never thought I would be a winter bride; just hoping we don't get snowed in until AFTER the wedding!