Is this an option with vendors? I'm brand new at this. My main focus right now is getting the reception venue. For a larger guestlist (250-300), the cost just adds up so much! Is it unheard of to fight for lower prices? It seems like I'll be able to save more using outside caterers, but sometimes it's not necessarily true (caterer fees, kitchen fees). Ugh, I don't know. Suggestions, anyone?