One for H's cousins just announced that on the 21st, she and her BF went to Reno and got married. We're very happy for them. I know normally couples don't get gifts when they elope, but had they had a wedding inviting family, we would have given them a nice gift.
Where H and I are getting a little torn is that his other cousin (older brother to the wife above) is getting married early September. Ceremony, reception, they're registered, etc. H and I had agreed on a gift budget for this couple. But, if we want to give the eloping cousin a gift, it will alter our budget.
So, my question, since these couples are siblings and are very close to H and me (groom for the Sept wedding was one of our groomsmen) should we try to gift them roughly the same? Or do our original thought for the September wedding and some small token gift for the elopement? Another option I haven't thought of?