Anyone have some tips as to how to involve my future mother in law in our wedding so that she feels she had some input on it? We're having it in another state and she's currently disapointed that she wont' be able to invite her friends. I know she's sad that her only son is getting married and probably feels like he's been paying more attention to me than to her. She and I are still getting to know eachother and I want to do something nice. Any ideas?