Ok I went on Sunday for my alterations appointment. The dress pulls me together perfectly and I love my curves BUT last time I was there I told them I thought it felt a little tight in the stomache area....anyway at this appointment they asked if I thought it was the dress or the bra. They had me sit down in a chair and it was actually painful under my chest due to the plastic in the bra along the stomache part. I told them it hurt and they said, "well think about how long you'll be sitting." Which is true...but I also don't want to be uncomfortable all day. They don't do returns so I can't return the bra. Also, I am only a "b" cup and they gave me a "c"...so the breast part is too big. I just feel kind of akward in the bra and I was wondering what else is acceptable to wear for a bra on your wedding day? Like what if I just bought a strapless bra to wear? Would the dress still show my curves? Also, when I sat down, I couldn't even sit normally and the lady was like " well the table will come up to here...." and held her hand over my stomache. The women were very nice but I just don't know what to do!! Advice??