My mother's SIL and her daughters threw me a shower in May. I send out my thank you cards within a week. At my sister's wedding recently, she was bad mouthing me for not thanking her for throwing the shower.
I'm 99.9% sure that I thanked her specifically for the gift she gave (with her daughters) as well as the work she put into the shower preparation. I know how she can be, so I know I was specific.
Do I assume she never got the card? It did come from across the country, so I'm sure that is a possibility.
So now, several months later do I send another card and assume it got lost? I don't really feel comfortable calling her, I'm not that close to her. The only reason why she co hosted the shower was because my mother hosted showers for her daughters.
It's really bugging me that she is being this way, since I know I sent the card.
Thanks for your input.