Let me start off by saying that I had a beautiful wedding and am blessed with a wonderful husband, friends and family. However, there are three 'good' friends that really disappointed me.
Friend 1 - She moved a few hours away right before we got engaged. Prior to that, she was always bugging me about when I was getting engaged and once it happened, she was constantly asking me questions about planning. Once the shower invite went out, I never heard from her again. When we sent out wedding invites, I tried calling/emailing/texting to see if she was coming our not. What's even more strange is that we were planning a weekend where I drove out to her place this summer. So I guess I'm not doing that anymore...
Friend 2 - Same sort of thing. We talked up until shower invites went out and nothing after that. She was also planning a wedding but told me it's only close family (specifically parents/brothers/sisters). Then I see on facebook that she actually had a really big wedding. I understand that she wasn't inviting every single person to her wedding but I feel like she flat out lied to me about it. It wouldn't bother me if she wouldn't have pointed out that it would only be close family.
Friend 3 - Probably the one that I'm hurt by the most. Again, never responded to the shower invite. She did say she was coming to the wedding when I borrowed her slip but then never showed up. I've tried calling/texting a couple times to see how she is doing (never mentioned the wedding) and she still hasn't responded.
I guess I'm just hurt that three people who I thought were good friends completely blew me off. It's not even that they didn't come to the wedding but just that they don't even respond. I know people get busy but in six months they can't respond to a text? My husband says things like that just happen with friends but it still really bothers me.