Hey ladies, sorry this will prob be long.... So I got engaged 4/15 and Fi and I have 2 beautiful girls just to give you background so yesterday me, my moh, bm, mom and grandma went to look at venues. I fell absolutely in love with one, but wasn't sure I could afford it. My grandma came out of the blue and said she would pay for the venue the bar totaling 6000.00. My grandma and I have always had a rocky relationship, my brother and male cousins have always been her fav. Anyway I was so excited, cried thanked her a million times and it was great. She called me this morning, went on and on about how it's so much money and said she has to pray about it. Now this venue has my date 4/13/13 avail.... But only this date in April. I'm supposed to take the deposit on Sat, which I have it but that cuts into the I was going to use for other ones....... I don't know what to do. I have been in some other boards and the ladies aren't always nice, please don't be mean here, just looking for advice