This is my first time posting here. My boyfriend (who is in the army) and I have been "secretly" engaged since September. We were just waiting till both of us have more money before he got me a ring and we went public with the engagement. Now, he's going to deploy for a whole year next February. If we waited till he got back, it'll be 2 & 1/2 to 3 years before we could get married. We'd both like to get married before he deploys but neither of us really have money. And if we somehow got the money, would it be wise to marry shortly before he deploys? Any advice is welcome.