I'm getting kind of frustrated with the men's boutonnieres. I originally bought artificial calla lilies (same as our bouquets) to use. However, the more I think about it, the more I don't want FI wearing a flower. It's just not him. Problem is, my dad hates the idea of using anything other than a flower as a boutonniere. Do ALL of the men have to wear them? Can I just have FI wear one? Will it be odd if the GM and fathers don't wear them as well?