I am having a very small wedding with about 25 guests. We planned everything in about 4 months and our wedding is in 4 weeks!!! My sister is my maid of honour and originally I wanted to have my bridal shower at a resturant. I then changed my mind and told her I want to play games and do the traditional stuff a bridal shower has so I thought we could now have the shower at our mom's house. After I told her that she decided to host it at her house. The problem is her house is WAY too small to have 16 people sit around a living room and play games and honestly her house is usually a mess when she has guests over. At first i thought whatever but then it started to really bother me and so I emailed her saying "No offence but I think mom's house is better suited to host the bridal shower." and then I told her why.( I did not mention the messiness of her house, just the size). I want my guests to feel comfortable and not be cramped in a tight space!!! I havent heard back from her yet but my mom told me my sister is PISSED!!! Is it fair for me to want the shower where I want it or am I overstepping my boundaries?