Hello,
My fiance and I are having a destination wedding. Since we are asking people to fly, get hotel rooms, take time off work, etc., we don't feel comfortable asking for gifts as well. Our website will say "No gifts, please - your presence at our wedding is a tremendous gift."
We certainly do NOT mean to imply that people who don't come to the wedding should send us a gift! Should we re-phrase this, or is it clear that we are requesting no gifts, from anyone? Should we stick with just "No gifts, please."? Thanks for your thoughts!