Advice Please!
I decided to have two "of Honors" in my wedding. It was important to me that my sister be my Maid of Honor but I also have a best friend who has really been there for me since we were 14. It worked out because she is married so she is my Matron of Honor.
Before I got engaged they both had made comments that they would be mad at me if they were not chosed as the MOH but since I got engaged they have both been wonderful even when I decided to ask both of them to be my "of Honors". I just love both of them so much and in very different ways! My sister lives a thousand miles away so even sharing duties has worked out with each of them doing what they can from where they are. Either that or they love me enough to keep issues to themselves.
But I don't know what to do about the ceremony. I looked up the etiquette on the knot and they said arranging them by height might cause problems and by relationship too. Not helpful! How did you line up your wedding parties? Does anyone have any creative ideas of how to line up two of honors? I feel like even though I didn't want to have to make a ranking decision between my friend and sister when I choose who stands next me that is what I will be doing. I just can't imagine how I can rate my love for these people! Thanks for your help, advice or ideas!
