My fiance hasn't had the easiest of childhoods and spent most of his life jumping from one foster home to another. He has only known his mother and sisterfor about 7 years and has no idea nor cares about his father (history behind that). He moved from the East coast out here to CA to be closer to his family, get to know them, and build relationships with; unfortunately it hasn't gone well. He barely speaks to his mom and sister, and all other family members (aunts, uncles, cousins, etc) he only sees or has contact with on big family events which ther have only been 2.
Basically he feels that bc he was out of everyone's life for so long his return isn't noticed nor cared about within his family. He is upset with how distant everyone is towrds him even after many attempts on his part to establish a close relationship with his family.
Do you think I should support his decision in not inviting any of his family to our wedding? I mean, how is he going to feel not having his family's support the day of and seeing my entire family there? And do we instead do a intimate wedding with immediate family members from my family and none of his? What will my family think or say if i only have my immediate family there and not cousins, aunts, etc.?
Help? 0_o