So I am a member of the Be The Match bone marrow list. I was called as a possible match for a 15 yr old girl with Lymphoblastic Leukemia. I asked the woman how pregnancy affects this as I am trying to get pregnant. Donating can take up to 6 months. She says she will put me on "hold" on the list for one year.
I'm 30 and I feel like I have 10 years to have a baby. As much as I would love to do this now, I can't stop thinking about the fact that this 15yr old girl may never get that chance because I chose the life of my as of yet to be conceived child over hers. I want to tell H that I am putting pregnancy on hold for at least three months to find out whether or not I am a match, then we can go from there. If my next test comes up negative I think I might call them back and tell them I put pregnancy on hold to see if I really am a perfect match or not.
I could have the blood work done and then find out that I don't match, which means we can start trying again in three months. If I am a match, so what, I get pregnant 6-12 months from now and this girl has a second chance at life.
This is a P&R as I have work to do. I just can't stoip thinking about this enough to get any work done.