Heres our story in a nutshell:
Me and my husband are military and after canceling wedding preparations numerous times due to multiple curcumstances, we got married in small chapel on post last July and had about 15 friends in attendance, no family (my father was sick and we didnt want everyone there if he couldnt be there) - the entire time we had intentions of planning a renewal of vows ceremony, when my dad got better and time allowed, that would look just like a traditional wedding with everyone in attendance for the first time - its going to be this August and I DO NOT KNOW proper etiquette on registering for gifts. My wedding planner says I should since no one really attended our wedding and those that did we asked that no gifts be brought. I just feel bad and dont want people being like "ugh! We had to fly out to Savannah AND give a gift? Theyre already married!"What to do? To register or not to register?! Help!