I was recently engaged in Hawaii and MOST of my friends couldn't be happier for us and can't wait to help out any way they can, but then I've got my family (who are happy too) already giving us a hard time for not wanted to get married in my home town or in my family church. We want an outdoor wedding and there is no where nice to do it in Las Vegas, NM. And my fiancee's ENTIRE family is from out of state so we are planning a wedding closer to the airport to accomodate them and make our wedding beautiful. On the other hand, one of the "best" friends, supposedly, hasn't so much as told us congratulations, yet assumes she's IN the wedding. How should I handle this?