OK, so I have a bridesmaid (well, I think she'll be one?!) that I've tried to discuss bridesmaid-y stuff with for the past few weeks, and I keep getting either no response of "I'm busy" from her. Single sentence responses in any email, no calls, no nothing. Fi & I recently announced our date, and I kinda thought she'd at least acknowledge something definitive like that, but everything's been pretty silent.
Shortly after I got engaged (a year ago), I asked her to be a bridesmaid and she seemed happy about it. We were friends through high school, college, and into our adult life. I'll break it down this way- when she has a boyfriend problem, she calls me for advice or to talk her through things. Though we live 1100 mi. away now, we still keep in reasonably regular contact - we talk probably every month or so. Facebook helps, too.
Still, I feel like I'm getting the cold shoulder, and I'm not sure what to make of it. Should I let it go, and if so, for how long? If you ladies take this as a sign she might be trying to get out of this, what do you suggest my action or response should be? I definitely feel like I'm getting blown off, and I'm having trouble knowing what to say or do.
Help please!