In July I got engaged to an amazing guy...not even a month later my older cousin also got engaged. She orginally thought she would get married in a couple years, but then realized when I was getting married in 2010, she wanted to also. The date she set was exactly 3 months after mine. We were at Thanksgiving dinner yesterday and she would ask me what I was doing for the reception or what my colors were or my bridesmaid dresses and when I would tell her she would say that she would do that too! I had this cute idea of having an anniversary prayer said at the wedding because it's my parents 25th and my grandparents 50th next year and she heard about my idea and wants to do that too! I'm just so frustrated! I want my wedding to be unique and well, basically me. But here my cousin decides to copy almost everything that I'm doing and use it in her wedding! I don't know what to do. I'm just frustrated!