I just need to vent and maybe get some un-biased advice. Origonaly my MOH was going to host my bridal shower and my bachelorette party.My mom then offered to host the bridal shower which I'm grateful for. Since then she has made me feel like a burden that she even has to do it.I know she has taken on a lot since offering,such as raising my cousin's child because she chooses not to. I've offered several times to help with the prep work as my shower is this weekend. I've offered to clean house, work on the yard and even tried to assist in planning the shower itself and playing gofer. My FSMIL has offered to help set up so has my BM and MOH and my grandmother. She has turned all of down and then complains that the shower is this weekend and has nothing done for it. I've tried and tried to offer help and she turns me down then complains she can't get anything done.I want to cancel the shower but she demands that I'm there and we go on with it. Any suggestions?