My sister is getting married by a JP in August and then having a picnic/BBQ reception. My sister was really disappointed that she wasn't going to have a bridal shower because she was going to the JP, so I offered to throw her a small sprinkle with 10-15 of her closest friends and family (people that I knew would not be offended that they can't go to the actual wedding ceremony). The guestlist included MOG, his grandmother, MOB, 5 of her closest friends, and an aunt in each side. I specifically asked the bride and groom if there was anyone else that they really wanted to have there, and they both said no. Now the MOG is upset because I'm not inviting every aunt, cousin, and whoever else that would be invited to a huge formal wedding. I was very clear about how many people I could accommodate, and I'm the only one paying for it.
I'll also add that MOG never offered to pay for anything even when my sister and FBIL were going to have a small formal wedding at a local B&B. Instead, MOG threw a fit because she would have to drive 45min to get there. Apparently, it was too inconvenient. I'm not saying that she has to offer to pay, but if she's not then she needs to stop making demands about inviting more people.
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