Just came to edit to let any readers know this post is no longer an issue. I'm going to, yet again, make her feelings my top priority (because I do LOVE her, she's my family and my friend), so whatever happens, happens. I'm going to be the only one that will be looking at the pictures on down the road anyway. Nobody else really cares about the details, so I'm just going to get over it. Thanks!
So let me start off by saying I AM happy that my cousin's pregnant.
On the other hand, I'm not so thrilled. I'm not sure what to do. She's due 10 days before our wedding. I was originally going to leave it up to her, but I've talked to a few other people and they think I should ask her to step down for her sake and my own. Everyone is saying she won't feel like being up there whether she's over due or just had a baby in the past couple of weeks. It is going to be in August outdoors, so it's going to be hot.
What would you do? I really don't want to ask her to step down, but at the same time, the colors of the dresses would be really messed up if, at the last minute, she couldn't be there. Plus, it'd also be pulling out a GM as her husband is one.
I wouldn't be quite so upset had she not TRIED to get pregnant, knowing my wedding was in 9 months (from the time she started trying). But at the same time, I realize she can't just put her life on hold for my wedding. We were just close and I helped SO much with her wedding in October that I was really hoping for the same.
This is probably a touchy subject, and I realize it's a bit Bridezilla of me...but frankly, it's my wedding and I really don't want to stress out because of her for the next 8 ish months. Oh, and her dad is my photographer, which also makes me nervous, depending on when she goes into labor, but that's another post.