Hi ladies. I am a second time bride at 47 !! I am widowed, and my fiance has never been married. He is also 47. I can't decide what to wear in my hair ( I think my hair will be up, my dress is strapless). I was thinking of a flower, but it is going to be hot (Florida in July). I don't want the flower to wilt. Now I am thinking birdcage veil, but I don't want to look too old, or too young. lol. Any thoughts/opinions would be appreciated - thanks!