I feel horrible thinking/feeling this but I can't stand my future brother in-law and his wife. I try to keep things calm and not show my dislike when I'm with them, however I'm pretty much the worst liar ever, and then it usually comes out later when they are not around I make rude comments about them or think them. I've been trying really hard to work on this so I "get over it" and I've definetly been doing better. They haven't done anything to me specifically but the way they act I find so annoying. I've been trying to focus on the things I like about them more so I can be more positive about them. Anyone know other ways to learn to enjoy someone's company more? Hanging out with them is an option I guess, I'm just worried I'd be rude to them if they "annoyed" me.
I should be happy for them because they just got married last month and are expecting a baby in April, however I just don't. I'm not jealous so don't worry about that because having a baby is the last thing I'd want in my life right now, being married, not a pressing issue either since that will be happening for me next year.
How do you learn to like someone?