If you've looked on I&P you know a little about what is going on, but my parents and my FFIL/FStepMIL are helping host our wedding. It has been very helpful. My FMIL does not have the same financial stability the others have, and hasn't offered anything. This is PERFECTLY fine by us. We both understand and it doesn't in any way change my relationship with her. I get along great with all my FILs.
My question is, should it be addressed or brought up at all? I don't want her to feel like she isn't contributing or involved because of money. I don't want this to be a sore spot or cause any problems in our relationship with her. She and FFIL went through a really bad divorce and DO NOT get along at all. We are also a little worried about when they are put in the same room. They wouldn't even be near each other when each of their children graduated college.
So again, should my FI address this so she knows, or just leave it and hope it never comes up?