I had to send the Facebook note to two friends that their 'plus 1' wasn't invited.
I copied and pasted the note from the 'plus 1' posting below. It PAINED me to write it, but I just can't add them to the list until we get more declines. Boo:(
My one friend that I wrote about below, I had let slide, but when I got a 'plus 1' from my other friend today, I sent the note to both, to be fair.
I did tell them that it was a real possibility that their dates will be able to come because we think we'll have a lot of declines.