Here is my dilema, I live two hours away from my very tiny extended family and my cousin/MOH. I only have a MOH and my mom passed away in 2005, no siblings either. I don't think I'll have enough people come to a wedding shower where I live now or where my family lives to make it worth while having a party, maybe 1015 people. Is it rude to register for gifts even though nobody is throwing a party for me?