So Im 31, have a 26 year old GF who is a very nice girl, good personality for the most part, a big nagging at times but cool to hang out, travel, and live with and my family seems to like her and she's cool with my friends/ lifestyle. She lives in my house i own, and I've basically got my life together....
Ive been married for a year and then dicorced 4 years ago, she has never been married.
The problem is we've been dating for almost 3 years now, and last year I told her i was 'considering going the next step' (marriage) and now a year later, still can't 'S__t or get off the pot.' There's nothing entirely wrong with her, and i DO Love her... But I've only been with 4 girls and im 31, all long term relationships... pretty much one after the other. When I didnt have a GF, i wasnt very happy....
I want kids in the NEAR future, and she'd be a great Mom. She's a little bit overweight, worries a bit too much, and I wish she had a few more close friends of her own... But other than that she's a great catch. It seems stupid to throw everything we have away because 'Maybe the Grass is Greener'.... But if Im typing this up, it obviously means Im still not 'all in' after 3 years.
Anybody else going through something similar to this, or have any sage wisdom? Thanks Guys.