So, we're having a destination wedding and recently sent out the invitations. I received an e-mail this morning from my FMIL asking if the ceremony start time of 3:00 pm is wrong on the invites and if I meant 8:00 pm instead. She said the time of our wedding is inconvenient for our guests becuse they will have to break from having the fun of beaching, boating, etc and she asked us to change the time of the wedding to early evening. Yes, it's true that the guests will be on vacation and will have to take a break from their activities the day of the wedding but they wouldn't be there in the first place if it weren't for our wedding. I am completely shocked that she would ask us to change the time of the wedding.