I have a bit of a messed up family (who doesn't?). My mother and I haven't spoken for 14 years. My grandparents have always been told by my mother that it's my fault we don't speak. I have invited my mother to the wedding and she has not RSVP'd. I'm working on creating the program, but I've run into a problem when identifying the Bridal Party. I have listed out the Mother and Father of the Groom, the Father of the Bride, Bridesmaids, Groomsmen, etc, but I don't know what to put for "Mother of the Bride". I'd like to recognize my stepmother, but out of respect for my grandparents, I'd still like to recognize my mother. Is it okay to put "Mother of the Bride" and list 2 names?