Hi all! I know you ladies always give honest advice and I am in need of some. DH and I were married in August and we also have a 15 month old daughter. Our original plan was to postpone a honeymoon until the summer of 2013 to give us time to save and so our daughter would be older. Financially, this past year has been the worst we have ever had so that was another reason for us to postpone.
However, now we are both in great jobs and we are getting back on our feet faster than I thought. The prospects of owning a home in the next few years are suddenly possible and it has got me thinking: should we put a honeymoon on the back burner and work our butts off and save for a home for our family? We are also planning to have baby #2 ( and our last baby) sometime in the next year and I know I would love a home for them to grow up in.
DH agrees for the most part but his argument is this: with 2 children, it will be quite some time until we are actually able to go on a kid-free vacation. He is thinking that we might regret not indulging in some couple time in order to go for the home. I can absolutely see his point and would love to sip drinks on the beach with him and have an uninterrupted conversation over dinner lol.
Any suggestions? TIA!
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