Sorry if this question has been posted a zillion times, but is it necessary? I've been to a wedding with no wedding party, but it was VERY casual- at a house, potluck dinner, etc.
We're having a pretty small wedding that we're just in the early stages of planning. We don't have a ton of friends that we're super-super close with. My best friend (a guy) just moved across the country and is up to his neck in his PhD thesis, so probably won't be too available to help with hands-on planning. Getting his advice on things, sure. My relationship with my best (female) friend seems to be fizzling out (no ill feelings, just losing touch), she's not very into weddings, and she doesn't have a ton of money. We also have very different work schedules and have a hard time getting together. I asked her if she could help me with planning and some DIY stuff, and she said she'd be happy to help. I'd also like her to come with me to pick out my dress, along with my mom.
I just don't know if it would be too much pressure on them to be official members of a wedding party, and all that comes along with it. I don't know if I NEED a wedding party either. Am I going to be totally overwhelmed without a MOH? Can I just have people who help with planning, and handing out favors, etc without giving them an official title? Am I crazy?
Another thing to note is that I'm still coming to terms with having a day that'll be SO MUCH about me, my fiance and our relationship.
Thanks in advance!