I've always, always, always hated the idea of a garter toss. I'm super-conservative (read: prudish) and I'm just mortified at the idea of my new husband digging up my skirts in front of everyone I know. I pretty much vetoed it before letting my fiance know, and he's upset--he really wants to be able to toss something. I told him that if he didn't think it was fair, then I wouldn't toss my bouquet either, but he doesn't want that either. How should be compromise? Am I being too picky? I just don't want to be uncomfortable at my own wedding reception, and from lurking the internet, I've gathered that bouquet and garter tosses aren't very "done" anymore. Does anyone have any suggestions for garter tossing alternatives?