I just found this board and it's probably the place I should be posting my questions about a Catholic wedding!
The Father who I thought was our Officiant is a little less than helpful and has screwed up our paper work a few times now. He's also had 6 months to send in our paper work to the Diocese for the Bishop to approve our marriage. I couldn't believe this hadn't been done! He sent us home with paperwork for our parents to fill out and sign, now he's told us he was supposed to interview them so we have to have that happen before the paper work get's sent in. It's wrong of me but I'm kind of hoping he gets transfered. :S
At our marriage prep course I met another Father who I really liked and felt was very approachable, easy-going and informative! But I'm not sure if he's from our Parish... if I find out our current Officiant get's transfered would it be appropriate to ask the other Father to be our officiant? This is really important to me and I'm feel a little lost.