So my matron of honor is of course my sister. She is two years older than me and has been married for 5 years (and of course I was her maid of honor-at 16 i might add) Now that I am getting married, it seems like my sister is just not interested in putting forth the effort to make this special for me. Her husband's brother is getting married for the second time and she is the MOH for that wedding which is only 7 weeks before mine. She has been way more active in that wedding and making time for the other bride that I feel neglected I guess. I don't want to be selfish, it just seems like my sister should be more into my wedding than into the other one. Am I wrong? Is there something I can do to help get her interested?