So, earlier I had posted on here about how my MOH had picked her wedding date 2 weeks before mine and I was upset. Well, I got over it. It's not just our wedding date that matters in life and I grew up and moved on. She has since moved her date for her own reasons. Here is where I am lost...
She keeps telling me if I want her to step down she will. I continue to tell her no, silly, you are my best friend. I asked you to be my MOH for a reason and I would really like you to stand up with me. She said again that she would understand if I asked her to step down. This repeated for like 10 min. Also she wants me to be the photographer for her wedding. I don't want to do this for several reasons. A. I don't want to be a vendor at her wedding. I want to be a guest and celebrate her day. B. She is expecting me to do this for free which I just can't do. That is an expensive service that takes a lot of time after the fact to finish. Plus my FI and I will be moving, so that would be SO much for me to try to smoosh into a few weeks to a month. Advice?