My FI was so busy with studying for his CPA exam that he was unable to go with me to look at the venue that I fell in love with. I went with my mom and my aunt. I told him about it, showed him pictures, videos, etc. and he liked it. From the time we got engaged, I discussed with him multiple times about having an outdoor wedding and he was fine with it. I even asked him to make sure he was okay with not having a priest perform our wedding since him and his family are wayyyy more religious than me and my family. Even though we are both Catholic.
So, now he is done with his exam. I have already booked the venue for my ceremony and reception. I have bought a dress that really is perfect for this outdoor wedding and have picked out colors, bridesmaid dresses, everthing! He can finally start helping and when I went over the stuff we need to decide on (caterer, photographer, and officiant) he seems shocked that we weren't having a priest. I reminded him that priests will not perform marriages outside of the church and he acted like I never told him. Soooo I don't know what to do? I know he will go along with the outside ceremony, but am I wrong for not giving in and having a church ceremony? I know it will make him happier (and both of our grandmothers would be ecstatic)... but this is not how I pictured everything...
Sorry, this is more of a vent, but I also want to see if I am doing the wrong thing by sticking with the original plan of an outdoor ceremony. I won't lose any money if I switch it, but my dress would look pretty stupid in a church.
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