I'm in the Navy, not my fiance. Any tips from girls out there who are in the service and have civilian fiances and spouses? It's always my fiance that gets thanked for serving our country and I am constantly overlooked, and vedors don't seem to understand that I took valuable leave time to be there to look at their places, and cannot come back to look again, so this first impression is really, really important. I have 5 days left to look at venues before I go back to base. Its really important for me to get married in the area we were raised, and its really important to find a good vendor who knows and understand our situation. How did all you girls plan a wedding and serve your country?