So, my parents are "hosting" the wedding, in the sense that they are funding most of the event, and the invitations say, "Mr. and Mrs. MyDad request the pleasure of your company...". So they are hosting, but FI and I are doing the bulk of the planning and details, which is fine.
Should I address the RSVP envelopes to come to our (FI & my) house? Or is it more appropriate to address them to the same place the invitations come from? (Return address on outer envelopes will be my parents' place.) Logistically, he and I will be keeping track of responses.
Edited to add: We live in the same town as my parents, so it's not like it would be a great ordeal to get the returned RSVPs from my mom once a week or so.