I am thrilled that my sister-in-law to be just announced to us that she is about 4 weeks pregnant!!
It just so happens that she is also one of my bridesmaids and it also just happens to be that she is due about a week before our wedding...I know that the due date doesn't necessarily mean she will have the baby on that exact day and whether she has it then, a week later or the day of the wedding, I'm not sure what to do here...
While I still want her to be my bridesmaid, I don't want her to feel as though she has to for multiple reasons. She might end up having the baby a week before the wedding, in which case I doubt she'd want to/be able to be there or whatever...there is also a chance of her being in labour on the wedding day, in which case she wouldnt be there and there is also the chance of her not having the baby by the wedding, but then I doubt she would want to take the chance to walk down the aisle when overdue...
Should I wait for her to tell me what she wants to do or ask her upfront?
What's the best way to go about this?
And if she says she would prefer to give up her "title" lol, is it wrong to find a replacement?