My boyfriend and I are thinking about marrying after I graduate high school. Did you do this, or consider it?
He's two and a half years older than me, and will be spending a year over seas and then go to Ranger school. We are thinking to marry either before or after ranger school so I can live/move with him and such. We know eventually we are going to marry anyways, so we think we might as well already do it to make ourselves happier.
It's not something that would change my mind, but I'm worried about negative opinions among family. Did you experience this? Like I said, it won't change anything, because i'll be 19 and can do it if I want, but it's still a little heartbreaking.
I feel if they do get upset about it then if they love me they'll get over it. Also if they get upset, they would be being a little hypocritical due to the fact at 16 my mother was parent and had me. Their marriage ended when I was eight, but my marriage won't be forced on me like theirs was because of pregnancy.
Thanks for your opinions ahead of time, and I would enjoy it if you guys aren't too mean! I'm hoping you guys will understand since you are also involved in the military.