My MOH and my Mom are planning my bridal shower. My mom and my soon to be MIL want to invite their friends to the shower. I have met my moms friends a few times, however I have not met my MIL's friends. Oe of my moms friends already bought the gift she is bringing! I am not inviting these people to my wedding and I dont want them to feel like they are good enough to make the bridal shower guest list and not the wedding. I think it seems like I just want the gifts, which I dont, I want a fun celebration of the woman.
Would it be okay to invite them, and put on the invitation that gifts are welcome but not neccessary? If so, how should it be worded?
Please help...