I had intended for my nephew to be my ring bearer. My sister just informed me that it is too expensive to fly with kids and too long of a drive. She is in N. Carolina and I am in Kansas City. Was it wrong for me to expect her to bring the kids? I get to see my family once a year and the wedding is still a year to a year and a half away. I know I have time to get someone else but I was just so shocked. Anyone else had to deal with this?