Ok.. I might get flamed for this, but i need some help.
My fiance and I spend literally 24/7 together. Sometimes, i just want to get out of the house and hang out with my friends without him, but he always puts a guilt trip on me saying "Do you want me to come?" Then when i say "I just want time with my friends" he gets upset with me and starts an argument and wants to come along, so either i give in and let him come, or i don't go. It's getting to the point where i need to do things without him, because if not its going to drive me insane. I have tried to talk to him about this, and he just gets upset that i dont "ask" him to come along all of the time and then he thinks he is inviting himself. I don't ask him to come because i want to get out without him sometimes. Is that selfish of me to do that?
I don't know how to tell him that i need some time to myself without him getting upset with me....