Hey Ladies, looking for some advice. Im standing in my best friends wedding. I am a bridesmaid. There are 3 other bridesmaids & a MOH. The MOH is helping out as much as she can, but works full time & has 2 kids. The three others have done NOTHING. I am a new mom & I am busting my ass. Im NOT trying to complain. I don't mind helping out, but I would really like it if some other girls would make some sort of an effort. Should I step back & let others try to make the effort instead of just taking it all on myself? I might be kind of a control freak lol. The other bridesmaids aren't even coming to the bachelorette party!!!!