Our plans were to go to Vegas and get married, since my fiance and myself could not afford to have a wedding. We figured that we would invite everyone, and whoever chose to go, could go. Then we could celebrate our honeymoon at the same time after family and friends left. My mother said wherever I decided to marry, she would be there. My fiance mother told him she would not go to vegas, as she was scared to fly, and did not want to make the drive. She told him she would never forgive him (and told someone else she would disown him) if he were to go to vegas. My fiance mother told him that if we stayed she would help out. He gave in without talking to me and said that we would stay and get married. I have been very upset that this could be done. Although I do not mind staying, we financially cant afford to have a wedding here, but with help, I would be happy to stay. I was hurt and bothered that a mother can do that to her son, and make him feel so guilty. When I confronted her, and told her my mother said she would support me no matter where I chose to marry,she became upset and said I was rude and hurt her feelings, and that I was throwing it in her face that my mother would go. She then told my fiance that she cant go becasue she is sick. Now she is throwing the sick card out there. After all this, I have gave in, and bit my tongue. She now has not offered to help financially like she said she would if we stayed. She will only help if we marry in her church (which I am a completely different religion) we decided to do nondenominational, and she refuses to help anymore. We financially cant do this, and have already picked my dress, and much more. Can someone please help me on how to go about asking for help. I am done with the vegas thing. It is a sore subject and I have had alot of grief about it. Thank you.