Ok, here goes...
We got engaged 3/2010. Shortly thereafter, I found out I was pregnant. Wedding plans were put on hold and planning for a baby shower began.
We set up a date to be married, 3/2013.
We never sent out engagement cards, had an engagement party, or anything.
I'm planning on sending out my STDs by Valentine's Day (2/2012). 2 reasons for this - It gives everyone more than a year notice (for planning of trip, finances, work....) and because it would be a romantic gesture to arrive on Valentines Day.
My hubby to be wants to have an engagement party. I haven't told many people our wedding date so that the STDs would be more of a surprise.
Ok..The Questions-
Should we have an engagement party (even though our engagement was a long time ago)?
If so, should we have the engagement party before or after we mail out our STDs?
I'm not sure what proper ettiquette is...Please help!