I've never been married, my fiance has and his first marriage was based on the fact he had a kid with a girl, it didn't work out and they got a divorce a year later, it's been five years since the divorce.
His Aunt has added me on Facebook, I've met her two times. I made a comment about my wedding and where it's going to be. His aunt leaves me this long comment for everyone to see, saying I'm planning too early its still 16 months till the wedding. And evben her daughters had big weddings and they didn't plan this far in advance.
And that her son's wedding was the best of all he went to St Lucia and got married there, instead of spending $$$$$$$$$$$$$ on a SECOND marriage...and thats what we should do.
So far Ive only put a deposit to reserve the reception hall, which I get a discount because I work there. (it's a casino) I havne't bought wedding dress, flowers, decorations or anything of the other sorts. And don't I deserve to have a wedding day, and my fiance is okay with it, why is his family against it, and telling us to go off and get married.